My current boyfriend and I have been off and on for about 3 1/2 years, but we are trying to make it work for good this time. He stays about 2 1/2 hrs away so most of our convos are over the phone. When I have a problem with him or something in our relationship and I want to talk about it, he usually changes the subject, says he'll call me back, or agrees with me just to shut me up so that he won't have to listen. Also, if he has a problem, he rarely talks to me about them. I'm tired of this reoccuring cycle. He claims he wants to share our problems, but never does. Is there any way I can get him to talk things out with me? After all this time, it shouldn't be this hard.