This is way complex. I have been seeing this man for 3+ months. He told me 1/2 way through that he would be going out and f-ing other women. i didnt approve of that but i did stay. our sex was not great & i always had to initiate it. i didnt fully understand the issue until after he had slept with another woman and i really wanted to know why. when it came down to it, what he said is "you are my mother!". that freaked me out and i immediately wanted out of the relationship. But it totally explained our sex issues... There is a ton more i could write here to explain in more detail but there isnt room. Should I even try to make this work under these circumstances? We do love eachother in a way i have never felt before (i do not love him as a son lol).