My husband has been pressuring me more and more to have sex with a few of his friends while he watches, or to go to a bar and have me pick someone up and have oral sex with him (or her). The whole idea goes against everything I believe in, but he is so good with the gift of words that he's almost got me believing there's something wrong with ME because I don't want to do that. He can't understand why I wouldn't want to go to a nudist resort, or do any of the things he wants me to do, because "as long as we're doing it as a couple, what's the big deal?" He also believes that 99% of the world thinks like him (including all of my friends), and that most of my issues are religion-motivated (we're both catholic). I honestly do NOT believe that is the norm; it doesn't bother me in the least that OTHER people do it - I have no desire to do it, however. Does that make me as weird as he thinks?