Today was my breaking point; my 15 year old daughter hit me & drew blood. At 5 she was diagnosed with ODD. Saw a therapist & took drugs (trileptal, ritalin) off & on for a few years. No signs of depression. Steals from me, arrested for shoplifting a year ago, pathological liar, calls me every name in the book, brilliantly verbally rips me a new one once a week (she could be a great prosecutor),I sense she is performing,she likes to make it physical-has a grin on her face, talks 100 mph, defiant. Adopted in Russia at 10 months. Refuses to take any medication. Hypomania, conduct disorder? How do I find someone who's really good at these specific issues?